No point in pressurizing yourself.
Today, I heard of a story from someone (which I'm not gotta mention who is who), it was really sad.
Why commit suicide just because of failing an Exam?
Well, in fact I know how important it is to pass an Exam but what's the point ending one's life just because there is a single failure in your life and you can't take it and then ending your life at a very young age?
That is what I call very silly or in a very rough saying, stupid.
I got to admit I do have many failures in life but did I take my life away? If it is, why am I still here blogging? (Make sense?)
Being sucks at studies and sometime stressing why didn't I get good grades, being bullied around by people for years until secondary 3, a friendship that gone bad which she is my very first best friend in secondary and etc. Well, that's my life before but it does get better over the time.
Sure, I'm not a A-star student (former ITE student still!) but at least I know I tried my best and take the test of my schooling life which finally lead me to poly life which I never thought I would be there studying.
And now I'm working with stress here and there, people complaining behind my back I'm still trying my best at the very least.
Maybe, I'm thinking way to optimistic but why should I think negatively? For what use should I think badly about the whole life?
In fact, I should be thanking those who passes by my life, without them I wouldn't be here!
I think in a human life, there are times we do make mistakes and having hard times, anytime, anywhere but learning from our mistakes that's what success in life make sense.
If ending one's life is the solution to all problems, then you are wrong. What happens to those who love you dearly? To them their life would never be the same and they would guity about why didn't they found out sooner that you are having problems all the while? (In the end more problems leave behind.)
Maybe, this person who failed the exam, must have feeling regret while commiting sucide but it was to late and then fallen. I do feel sad and pity for this person because nobody knows what he/she is thinking and nobody knows when to step in and help when things starts to go wrong.
That's why it is better to pour out your feelings to anyone who you think is trusted or through counselling, rather going crazy or commit sucide at least you would feel better and thinking clearly before having the thought of dying.
It just not worth the time of your life to end it yourself because you would never get to see what your future will be like.
Nobody knows what future holds but I'm looking forward to it. =D
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